How To Give A Hand Job

Being a guy I like to think i’m very experienced in this field. I’ve had a lot of experience with myself for many years to know how just what to do when it comes to giving a hand job. Lucky for you i’m prepared to spill my secrets.
How To Give A Hand Job
Invest in Some Lube (Trust Me It’s Worth It)
Listen to me when I say using lube feels so much better when giving a hand job. We don’t use it ourselves because most men just want the job done and over but, if you want to make that hand job the best he has ever had, invest in lube!
The lube I recommend through experience is either Durex strawberry flavored lube (Europe – America), great for hand jobs that turn into blow jobs or Durex aloe vera (Europe – America), really soft and feels amazing when used during a hand job.
Men Like Foreplay Too
Men have it drilled into their head that women need foreplay in order to orgasm, well men also need foreplay in order to achieve a great orgasm.
So before you dive right into the penis, try teasing him, whisper, kiss, massage and use your finger tips to build stimulation. You can take control, tell him what you want to do to him, even put a blindfold on him.
You won’t just create an unbelievably sexy atmosphere, you will hopefully make his climax so intense because he is so built up from all your teasing.
How To Give A Hand Job
The Tip Is The Most Important Part Of The Penis
The tip of the penis is the most glorious. I guess it’s in the same category as the clitoris. I’d say around 90% of your focus needs to be there and if you learn to stimulate it correctly you will always be onto a winner.
Trial and Error: Some men are circumcised, others are not. Some men like it rough others like it gentle, just the same as some like it slow and others like it quick. Listen to his body and change speeds, pressure, grip and technique according to his needs. It seems complicated but when he’s moaning you know you’re doing it right.
Don’t Forget The Balls
Some men go absolutely crazy for ball touching and others hate it. I generally say that all men can enjoy ball stimulation, but some men are especially sensitive, so you’ll need to be gentle, go slow and use your fingertips and tongue to stimulate them.
Now depending on the man you’re with you can cup the balls lightly with your hand while giving him a hand/blow job. You can use your tongue/mouth to lick/suck the balls while using your hand to stimulate the penis.
Here’s a guide on stimulating the balls.
How To Give A Hand Job
Listen To His Body And Noises (He’ll Let You Know)
Most men are clever enough to let you know if they’re enjoying the stimulation you’re giving them. So listen to his groans, how he reacts, his facial expressions and hand placements.
If he’s grabbing the bedding, letting out moans and having body spasms then I’m pretty sure you’re doing it right.
Use Speed To Your Advantage
Some men do like to start things off slow, but even so, 99% of men will want you to speed up after a few minutes. This doesn’t mean go at speeds that might rip something off his body, it just means add some speed to your hand movements and get things going.
Tips: Your hand might get tired after a few minutes, so be sure to go at a peace you can maintain, switch hands if you have to.
Continues Method (Wow)
A quick technique that feels incredible is to use the continues method. It’s basically where you apply a generous amount of lube to the penis, then you start with one hand and move it from the bottom of the shaft, all the way to the tip of the penis and then you use your other hand and grip the bottom of the shaft and then bring that to the tip of the penis, you then repeat this motion just starting from the bottom once the hand reaches the tip.
This feels amazing, is a different sensation and is something that men find hard to do on their own (so it’s a different kind of stimulation).
How To Give A Hand Job
Move The Penis Away From The Body
I think this may come down to preference, but I personally get more stimulation when my penis is pointed up while getting the hand job, than when it’s pointed to my belly button. This doesn’t mean all men are the same, but by asking my friends it seems most agree that they like it pointed up at least a few inches from the stomach.
Massage The Thighs
If your man’s not ticklish then you could try a thigh massage that later involves the penis. All you need is some edible massage oil (Europe – America), a nice sound track, a bed (Something for him to lay on) and a blindfold.
Start the massage off by oiling up his thighs, take your time (don’t rush), after 5 minutes of massaging them, you can slowly start building in a little penis stimulation, if you’re using edible oil you can also add a little oral sex to stimulate him further.
My final tip is just try to enjoy yourself as much as possible, nobody wants to feel like it’s a task. If you’re clearly having fun and getting in to it, your partner will be turned on. Never be a selfish lover!
How To Give A Hand Job
Tell Him If It’s The End Or The Beginning
When a hand job is done right it can actually be better than a blow job, but some men won’t be satisfied cuming to a hand job when they think there’s a chance of sex. So, before you give him a hand job tell him if it’s the start or the finish. That way he can truly enjoy it for what it is, without having to worry about wasting his load.
Learn His Body With Mutual Masturbation
If you’re finding it hard to read what your partner likes then try mutual masturbation. I did a whole article on it. Masturbate together and watch each other get off. You can learn so much about what your partner enjoys and how to stimulate them from then on.
Now you shouldn’t copy all their methods as men are usually masturbating to get the job over with as quick as possible, but if you look at the speeds, the pressure and the bits of the penis he focuses on you can learn a lot.
How To Give A Hand Job
Dress To Impress And Let Him Explore
Wearing something that’s revealing does amazing things with our imagination, so wearing a skimpy outfit while giving the hand job is a great idea.
You can also let him explore your body while you perform the act. Let him feel/see your boobs, just let him explore, this will help his imagination come to life. Making it easier for him to cum.
Stop And Start
Every time your man is about to come, just stop. The more you stop and start the bigger the orgasm will be. So, play a game, get him to tell you when he’s about to cum and as soon as you know completely stop. Do this 5 – 6 times and then finally let him cum. You’ll see how much more explosive his orgasm gets with this simple build up method.
Oral Sex Techniques
You know what makes a hand job better? Oral sex! So, improve your oral sex techniques with this amazing article on how to give your man an incredible blow job.
Further Resources
Hand job 101 – How I give a handjob – Adina does an amazing video (a must see) on how she gives hand jobs.
Are there any techniques for a perfect handjob? – A reddit question with some answers that’ll teach you more than a thing or two about hand jobs.
How to give your man a hand job he won’t forget – Durex gave me some awesome tips on being handy with hand jobs ;).
How To Give A Hand Job
Go you for reading this article, even this small bit at the end ;). That shows how much you must want to give a great hand job. So, if you need any help just comment. Have a lovely day, Oli.

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