How To Give The Best Blow Job

I’m a man so I feel i’m the best person to give you advice on how to give the best blow job, I know what we like after all.
How To Give The Best Blow Job
Men Like Foreplay too
Most women know how much men love blow jobs but, it’s surprising to know a lot of women don’t actually enjoy giving them.
I love giving a woman oral sex because of her reactions and how much she enjoys it. Her enjoyment and pleasure actually gets me off, so it’s an all round brilliant experience.
I’ve found a few ways to achieve the same pleasure from a blow job and I’ve actually found ways to convert women who hate the idea of giving head, into oral sex queens.
How To Give The Best Blow Job
The Wetter The Better
It’s true, the wetter you make it, the more enjoyment we get. Sometimes I see women who get nervous at the thought of a wet blow job, whether it be the sound or visuals, they just don’t have the confidence to go for it.
Now, I personally like it to be wet, messy and fun and I know most men will agree.
Tip: Just ask your man if he likes it wet. It’s the quickest way to find out.
Use Your Hands
Use Your Hands, But Don’t Over Power The Blow Job
It all depends on penis size, if you’re dealing with a man who is average or above, then placing a hand at the base of the penis, while lightly sucking, licking and teasing the tip is the ideal way to get things started. Once it starts to heat up, you can move your hand higher up the penis, while sucking, then mix the blow job up with some hand job action.
Tip: If your man likes it wet and messy, a kinky way to spice things up is to make sure there’s loads of saliva on the tip of the penis.
If he’s got a smaller member then you will be better focusing on the balls (I’ll tell you about the ball stimulation below), while occasionally using your hand to mix things up.
Reason why penis size matters: If a man was giving you oral sex, then changed to his hand, then back to oral sex and kept repeating that pattern, you may find it hard to stay focused and enjoy the experience. This is the same for men, most of us like double stimulation, but if we had to choose we’re always going to want the blow job over the hand job. So, if he’s not big enough to focus on both, it’s best to use the hands elsewhere, IE: Stroke the balls and the base of the penis.
Deepthroat
Deepthroat
Women who can deepthroat dominate the blow job world. But, if you can’t deepthroat your partner/don’t want to deepthroat your partner fear not, as I’ll teach you other tips that’re just as good.
But for you women who are interested below is the advice I’ve learned about deep throating:
Deep Throat Spray
I’ve actually used this myself as a laugh (not to give a blowjob) and it almost completely closes off the gag reflex making it easier to deepthroat a penis. The fear of puking on his penis just disappears because you have no reflex!
Warning: Don’t spray this in your mouth right before or during the blow job. It will desensitize your mans penis and it will make it a lot harder for him to reach climax.
Usually you give it a spray around 10 minutes before, giving it time to set, so it doesn’t drip on the penis and kill his sensitivity.
Best deep Throat Spray (My Opinion) – Europe – America.
Pinch your left thumb (a dentist trick)
It’s simple you make a fist, then put your thumb under your forefinger and through the right hand side of your middle finger and then just squeeze. Give it a try now, it’s weird how well this works.
Practice
The only way to get better at deep throating is to do it regularly, using either a penis or a safe penis shaped object. The more you do it, the less sensitive your gag reflex will become.
How To Give The Best Blow Job
Ignore The Job In Blow Job And Be Super Enthusiastic (Wow, I Love Your Dick!!!)
The best lover a man will ever come across is the one that’s enthusiastic. I mean there are women who treat sex like it’s an amazing secret no-one else knows about, these women could suck in bed, but because they’re so happy and excited to have sex, it makes them automatically incredible sex goddesses.
To gain this power just be happy to try it and act like you want to. No guy wants to be made to feel like he’s making he’s partner do something they don’t want too or having or ask/beg to try something new.
How To Give The Best Blow Job
Moan, Grow, Enjoy, Giggle And Have Fun
It doesn’t have to be so serious! if there’s a weird noise down below, giggle about it! If you’re enjoying it tell him! nothing will turn him on more.
Swallow Or Spit
Swallow Or Spit (You Decide)
Ignore the statement ‘spitters are quitters’ I wouldn’t like a hot load of cum firing down my throat either. Men do enjoy it but, it won’t change the blow job.
I’d say that 90% of all the blow jobs men get are neither swallow or spit, but instead are more aimed at our belly and let fire.
I can imagine that it’s a pretty horrible experience, so if you’re really against it then don’t do it. But if you’re a little open-minded I’d definitely say it’s worth trying, especially if you want to completely amaze him.
But, it’s warm, slightly salty and has an after taste. Soo… It’s your call.
OMG BOOBS
Use Your Body To Get Him Off (OMG BOOBS)
While giving him a blow job let him enjoy your body in different positions. I love seeing all a girls curves while getting head and I can guarantee your man’s the same.
Let His Hands Wonder
Let His Hands Wonder (No Going Near The Butt Mr)
Turn the lights low and let his hands wonder your body while you give him a blow job. This lets him use his imagination and allows him to explore your body in a sexual way while getting an incredible pleasure.
Don’t Forget The Balls
Don’t Forget The Balls (Be Different, Don’t Neglect The Balls)
I didn’t like ball stimulation at all as I found it too sensitive, but once I let a female take control and try it gently, with a soft touch, my mind was changed completely.
Start with your fingertips and lightly grasp the balls, you can even try licking/sucking them gently. It’s best to do this once he’s warmed up, as it may be to sensitive or tickle at the start.
Then run circles with your fingers around where the scrotum meets the base of the penis. You can then incorporate them into the hand job part of the blow job, by sucking the tips of his penis, while moving your hand down his shaft, then finishing by lightly passing, then cupping the balls.
All men like different pressure, so start really gently and just communicate and use body language to find out what he likes.
Add A Bullet Vibrator
Add A Bullet Vibrator
If you’re not feeling confident about touching his balls, or just want to give him the ultimate orgasm, buy a bullet vibrator (Europe – America), put it on a low vibration setting/pattern and lightly run it over the balls and the base of the penis while you’re giving him head. Don’t over stimulate, be gentle, let the vibrations run through and most importantly, respond to his body language.

How To Give The Best Blow Job
Light Mints (Woooo, Does This Add A Thrilling Twist)
First let me tell you to be careful and do not try this with extra strong/fisherman’s friends, I had a bad experience that I’m not happy to go into detail about!
When you want to add a little twist to a blow job, get some light mints and chuck them in your mouth before you give head, the menthol makes the penis tingle, which increases stimulation.
Flavored Lube
Flavored Lube (Incredible)
The best hand jobs and blow jobs always start with lubrication. So, in order to add a little pang to your blow job experience get some strawberry flavored lube (America – Europe).
It tastes fantastic, lasts a long time, is easy to apply and will definitely make the blow job more enjoyable for you and your partner.
How To Give The Best Blow Job
Learn To Build Him Up Before The Point Of No Return
As someone who masturbates a lot (like most men), I’ve learnt that the secret to a powerful orgasm is build up. The more you build him up, the more explosive his orgasm will be.
Try playing a game where he’s not allowed to cum for at least 20 minutes, tell him to stop you right before he’s about to ejaculate and continue starting and stopping at least 8 times before you let him explode.
Try this once and you’ll see the power of build up and the power you will now have over him.
Sideway 69
Sideways 69 Can Mix Things Up
Both women and men are insecure about 69’s, I just think no-one wants to put their butt in someone else’s face. So, a great way to mix up the 69 or at least build up to it, is to try a sideways 69.
It’s less awkward, allows you to both enjoy oral pleasure, is still intimate, but with candle light and some music playing in the background you’ll have no problem relaxing and enjoying the experience.

Take Full Control
Take Full Control (You Might Enjoy It)
Most men, love being in full control, playing rough and dominating their partners. But, there’s also a lot of fun in the female being in control.
So, grab some handcuffs and a blindfold and take full control of your man. Start with the blow job, but don’t limit yourself to it, just start by making it about him, then start using his body to get yourself off.
When done right, you’ll be surprised how much fun being in-control is.
PS: Most men think it’s undeniably hot when a girl takes control in the bedroom. Especially when she communicates and makes things even more dirty.
How To Give The Best Blow Job
They Grow On You
Not many women say “That was the best experience of my life” after giving a blow job. But, trust me the more you give your man head, the more of a taste you get for it.
Just don’t be afraid to ask your man to shower and shave/groom before he gets a blow job, as it won’t offend us, we’ll just be happy to be getting head.
How To Give The Best Blow Job
You’re Automatically Better Than Most Women In His Head.
I’ll end this by saying that you’re an absolute keeper if you’re working on improving your sex skills. Most women and men never sadly unlock the full pleasures of their sexual being due to being told it’s weird to fulfill sexual needs, this is BS. And as long as you’re both enjoying yourselves and have full consent, it’s an orgamsic experience to explore your sexuality and see what hidden tricks you have to cause pleasure for the other half. So enjoy yourself and remember to experiment with your partners body and the tips on this list.
My List of 4 Useful Resources
How To Give A Blow Job & Make Him Go Wild! – I’m a massive fan of MyTinySecrets YouTube videos and this taught me extremely well about sucking d**k.
How To Give a Blow Job That Doesn’t Make you Gag – bustle.com
How to Get a Blow Job from Any Girl You Want (It’s Easy) – Easy to follow epic blow job tutorial worth reading.
How To Give The Best Blow Job
I’d love to hear your advice and tips, so feel free to leave a comment below. Have a lovely day and thanks so much for reading. Cheers, Oli.

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